On the First Date? 🍑 Agree or Disagree?
Summary
A subway rider makes a provocative argument: more people should have sex on the first date. Her math is simple. If you wait four dates at four hours each, that's 16 hours wasted on bad chemistry. She thinks women engage in mental gymnastics, holding back because they worry men won't take them seriously, while guys always want to sleep with women they like. Kareem asks about her friends' opinions. It's split 50/50 among women, she says, but men are universally pro-first-date sex. Her take cuts through the usual dating game pretense with blunt economic logic about time investment and compatibility.
Full Transcript
I think more people should on the first date. More people should have on the first day. So you, we're not talking about me today. You're waiting four dates. What do you think is the average time period of a day? Four hour? You're waiting 16 hour to have a bad leg? 16 hours of waste a time. I think if they don't like you, it's not going to come down to whether or not first day I age or the fourth.
Do you have any friends that disagree with you? It's a 50/50 split. Some girls are pro on the first aid, and guys, I think all guys are pro on the first. Have you, Johnny, be like, "Oh, I like love Susan, but I want to wait cuz I want her to take me serious." They always wanted to me, whereas like women are out. Su's out with Johnny. Susie's vibing. She's feeling like all hot, but she's like, "Oh, I have to we because he's not going to like me." That's some mental gymnastics that I think we need to eradicate.